Contemporary famous Chinese scholar, writer, philosopher
(He seldom writes other people's experiences, but each of us can find it in his writings. ）
When love through time in our lives,
Zhou Guoping teacher told us:
"Not by his success or failure in life, nor by his success or failure in love.
Real love is mostly failed, not lost to hard to make it but was defeated by finally satisfied weariness. However, the resignation left a lasting nostalgia, boredom sparked a new pursuit, which in turn perhaps the success of love itself.
After all, love is beyond success or failure. Love is the most beautiful dream in life, you can say you had a successful dream dreams or failure? "
He told us what was real lonely:
"The soul of a mediocre, and not worthy of understanding content, and therefore will not feel lonely. Loneliness is an understandable mind seeks to understand and available, it's tragic. Boredom is an empty heart to seek fun, which weren't available, it is comedic. Loneliness is not in search of ordinary human warmth, it is neutral. However, people often confuse them, even pretending to be a lonely bored ... ... "
"My nature is not communication. On most occasions, I do not find each other boring is the fear I bored with each other. But I was willing to put up with each other's boredom, rather hard to seem interesting, that were too tired. I am most comfortable alone, because I don't feel bored, even boring, also bear and does not involve other people, or feel uneasy. ”
He told the girls what men worth marrying:
Men should not be timid, the ability to have a fighting spirit and self-reliance, not cowardice, has a strong will and courage of courage, not trivial, have a open mind and vision. Aggressive, perseverance, generosity, it is like a man. Both men and women will agree with this conclusion. Woman willing to marry such a man, because men can assume responsibility for reliable, let her heart at ease.
These are closely related to each one of us's philosophy from the Zhou Guoping teacher's personal public number.