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——周国平

在阅读时代里, 一个优质的公众号,往往就像朋友一样, 在孤独时给我们充实的慰藉,在喧闹时,又能让我们安静的看清前行的方向。 – – Zhou Guoping Reading age, a high quality public, often as a friend, give us substantial comfort in solitude, when in a noisy and leave us in peace to see along the way.

[:zh]

作为一个通晓人性的智者,蒙田曾经设想,男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是一种肉体得以分享的精神友谊。倘若有人问:这种肉体得以分享的精神友谊究竟是什么东西——是爱情,准爱情,抑或仍是友谊?我来替蒙田回答吧:智者不在乎定义。

——周国平

在阅读时代里,

一个优质的公众号,往往就像朋友一样,

在孤独时给我们充实的慰藉,在喧闹时,又能让我们安静的看清前行的方向。

今天为大家推荐一位著名作家的公众号:

周国平(ID:zhouguoping6666)

 

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

 

中国当代著名学者、作家、哲学家

(他很少写别人的经历,但我们每个人都能从他的文字里找到自己。)

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

当爱情途经我们的生命里的时候,

周国平老师告诉我们:

“不要以成败论人生,也不要以成败论爱情。

现实中的爱情多半是失败的,不是败于难成眷属的无奈,就是败于终成眷属的厌倦。然而,无奈留下了永久的怀恋,厌倦激起了常新的追求,这又未尝不是爱情本身的成功。

说到底,爱情是超越于成败的。爱情是人生最美丽的梦,你能说你做了一个成功的梦或失败的梦吗?”

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

 

他告诉我们什么是真正的孤独:

“一颗平庸的灵魂,并无值得别人理解的内涵,因而也不会感受到真正的孤独。孤独是一颗值得理解的心灵寻求理解而不可得,它是悲剧性的。无聊是一颗空虚的心灵寻求消遣而不可得,它是喜剧性的。寂寞是寻求普通的人间温暖而不可得,它是中性的。然而,人们往往将它们混淆,甚至以无聊冒充孤独……”

“我天性不宜交际。在多数场合,我不是觉得对方乏味,就是害怕对方觉得我乏味。可是我既不愿忍受对方的乏味,也不愿费劲使自己显得有趣,那都太累了。我独处时最轻松,因为我不觉得自己乏味,即使乏味,也自己承受,不累及他人,无需感到不安。”

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

他告诉姑娘们什么样的男人值得嫁:

男人应该不窝囊,有奋斗的精神和自立的能力,不怯懦,有坚强的意志和临危不惧的勇气,不琐碎,有开阔的胸怀和眼光。进取,坚毅,大度,这才像一个男人。无论男人女人都会同意这个结论。女人愿意嫁这样的男人,因为这样的男人能够承担责任,靠得住,让她心里踏实。

这些与我们每个人息息相关的哲理思想都出自于周国平老师的个人公众号。

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

此外,周老师的公众号还推送过很多很棒的文章,关注周老师公众号,后台回复关键词,可获取优质文章。

《如果你的爱人偶然出轨了,我的建议是......》

(关注周国平老师公众号,后台回复“出轨”阅读文章)

《你遇见了谁,决定着你的命运》

(关注周国平老师公众号,后台回复“遇见”阅读文章)

《两人是否相爱,一个可靠尺度是......》

(周国平公众号后台回复“相爱”阅读文章)

《你为什么活的焦躁且拧巴?》

(周国平公众号后台回复“拧巴”阅读文章)

《最佳男女关系的公式》

(周国平公众号后台回复“男女公式”阅读文章)

《一个人成熟的标志是什么?》

(周国平公众号后台回复“成熟的标志”阅读文章)

《致焦虑的你》

(周国平公众号后台回复“焦虑”阅读文章)

《真爱是什么感觉?》

(周国平公众号后台回复“真爱”阅读文章)

他还说了什么?

关注周国平公众号,相信每个人都会有收获!

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

 

As a wise man of a knowledge of human nature, Montaigne had envisioned, the happy way marriage between men and women, but a body to share the spirit of friendship. If someone asked: what exactly is this spirit to share the spirit of friendship things--love, love, or friendship? I am here to answer Montaigne: the wise men don't care about definitions.

--Zhou Guoping

Reading time,

A high quality public, often as a friend,

Give us substantial comfort in solitude, when in a noisy and leave us in peace to see along the way.

Today recommend a famous writer, public:

Zhou Guoping (ID:zhouguoping6666)

Contemporary famous Chinese scholar, writer, philosopher

(He seldom writes other people's experiences, but each of us can find it in his writings. )

When love through time in our lives,

Zhou Guoping teacher told us:

"Not by his success or failure in life, nor by his success or failure in love.

Real love is mostly failed, not lost to hard to make it but was defeated by finally satisfied weariness. However, the resignation left a lasting nostalgia, boredom sparked a new pursuit, which in turn perhaps the success of love itself.

After all, love is beyond success or failure. Love is the most beautiful dream in life, you can say you had a successful dream dreams or failure? "

He told us what was real lonely:

"The soul of a mediocre, and not worthy of understanding content, and therefore will not feel lonely. Loneliness is an understandable mind seeks to understand and available, it's tragic. Boredom is an empty heart to seek fun, which weren't available, it is comedic. Loneliness is not in search of ordinary human warmth, it is neutral. However, people often confuse them, even pretending to be a lonely bored ... ... "

"My nature is not communication. On most occasions, I do not find each other boring is the fear I bored with each other. But I was willing to put up with each other's boredom, rather hard to seem interesting, that were too tired. I am most comfortable alone, because I don't feel bored, even boring, also bear and does not involve other people, or feel uneasy. ”

He told the girls what men worth marrying:

Men should not be timid, the ability to have a fighting spirit and self-reliance, not cowardice, has a strong will and courage of courage, not trivial, have a open mind and vision. Aggressive, perseverance, generosity, it is like a man. Both men and women will agree with this conclusion. Woman willing to marry such a man, because men can assume responsibility for reliable, let her heart at ease.

These are closely related to each one of us's philosophy from the Zhou Guoping teacher's personal public number.

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

In addition, the Professor of the public, have pushed many great articles, focusing on teacher Zhou, public, background response keywords, to obtain high quality articles.

Occasionally if your lover is cheating, what I'm suggesting is that ... ...

(Attention to Zhou Guoping teachers, public, background response "infidelity" to read article)

Who you met, your fate depends on

(Attention to Zhou Guoping teachers, public, background response "meet" to read article)

The two people are in love, is a reliable ... ...

(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response "in love" to read article)

Why are you anxious and twist the bar? 》

(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public responses "twisted bar" to read article)

The best formula of relations between men and women

(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public responses "formula for men and women," read the article)

The one sign of maturity is what? 》

(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response, "a sign of maturity," read the article)

The anxiety caused by you,

(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response "anxiety" to read article)

What is true feeling? 》

(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response "real love" to read article)

What else did he say?

Zhou Guoping, public concern, I believe everyone will have harvest!

[:en]

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

作为一个通晓人性的智者,蒙田曾经设想,男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是一种肉体得以分享的精神友谊。倘若有人问:这种肉体得以分享的精神友谊究竟是什么东西——是爱情,准爱情,抑或仍是友谊?我来替蒙田回答吧:智者不在乎定义。

——周国平



在阅读时代里,

一个优质的公众号,往往就像朋友一样,

在孤独时给我们充实的慰藉,在喧闹时,又能让我们安静的看清前行的方向。


今天为大家推荐一位著名作家的公众号:

周国平(ID:zhouguoping6666)


男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...


中国当代著名学者、作家、哲学家

(他很少写别人的经历,但我们每个人都能从他的文字里找到自己。)

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

当爱情途经我们的生命里的时候,

周国平老师告诉我们:


“不要以成败论人生,也不要以成败论爱情。

现实中的爱情多半是失败的,不是败于难成眷属的无奈,就是败于终成眷属的厌倦。然而,无奈留下了永久的怀恋,厌倦激起了常新的追求,这又未尝不是爱情本身的成功。

说到底,爱情是超越于成败的。爱情是人生最美丽的梦,你能说你做了一个成功的梦或失败的梦吗?”

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...


他告诉我们什么是真正的孤独:


“一颗平庸的灵魂,并无值得别人理解的内涵,因而也不会感受到真正的孤独。孤独是一颗值得理解的心灵寻求理解而不可得,它是悲剧性的。无聊是一颗空虚的心灵寻求消遣而不可得,它是喜剧性的。寂寞是寻求普通的人间温暖而不可得,它是中性的。然而,人们往往将它们混淆,甚至以无聊冒充孤独……”


“我天性不宜交际。在多数场合,我不是觉得对方乏味,就是害怕对方觉得我乏味。可是我既不愿忍受对方的乏味,也不愿费劲使自己显得有趣,那都太累了。我独处时最轻松,因为我不觉得自己乏味,即使乏味,也自己承受,不累及他人,无需感到不安。”


男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...


他告诉姑娘们什么样的男人值得嫁:


男人应该不窝囊,有奋斗的精神和自立的能力,不怯懦,有坚强的意志和临危不惧的勇气,不琐碎,有开阔的胸怀和眼光。进取,坚毅,大度,这才像一个男人。无论男人女人都会同意这个结论。女人愿意嫁这样的男人,因为这样的男人能够承担责任,靠得住,让她心里踏实。


这些与我们每个人息息相关的哲理思想都出自于周国平老师的个人公众号。

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

此外,周老师的公众号还推送过很多很棒的文章,关注周老师公众号,后台回复关键词,可获取优质文章。


《如果你的爱人偶然出轨了,我的建议是......》


(关注周国平老师公众号,后台回复“出轨”阅读文章)


《你遇见了谁,决定着你的命运》


(关注周国平老师公众号,后台回复“遇见”阅读文章)


《两人是否相爱,一个可靠尺度是......》


(周国平公众号后台回复“相爱”阅读文章)


《你为什么活的焦躁且拧巴?》


(周国平公众号后台回复“拧巴”阅读文章)


《最佳男女关系的公式》


(周国平公众号后台回复“男女公式”阅读文章)


《一个人成熟的标志是什么?》


(周国平公众号后台回复“成熟的标志”阅读文章)


《致焦虑的你》


(周国平公众号后台回复“焦虑”阅读文章)


《真爱是什么感觉?》


(周国平公众号后台回复“真爱”阅读文章)


他还说了什么?

关注周国平公众号,相信每个人都会有收获!

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

As a wise man of a knowledge of human nature, Montaigne had envisioned, the happy way marriage between men and women, but a body to share the spirit of friendship. If someone asked: what exactly is this spirit to share the spirit of friendship things--love, love, or friendship? I am here to answer Montaigne: the wise men don't care about definitions.

--Zhou Guoping



Reading time,

A high quality public, often as a friend,

Give us substantial comfort in solitude, when in a noisy and leave us in peace to see along the way.


Today recommend a famous writer, public:

Zhou Guoping (ID:zhouguoping6666)

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

Contemporary famous Chinese scholar, writer, philosopher

(He seldom writes other people's experiences, but each of us can find it in his writings. )

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

When love through time in our lives,

Zhou Guoping teacher told us:


"Not by his success or failure in life, nor by his success or failure in love.

Real love is mostly failed, not lost to hard to make it but was defeated by finally satisfied weariness. However, the resignation left a lasting nostalgia, boredom sparked a new pursuit, which in turn perhaps the success of love itself.

After all, love is beyond success or failure. Love is the most beautiful dream in life, you can say you had a successful dream dreams or failure? "

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

He told us what was real lonely:


"The soul of a mediocre, and not worthy of understanding content, and therefore will not feel lonely. Loneliness is an understandable mind seeks to understand and available, it's tragic. Boredom is an empty heart to seek fun, which weren't available, it is comedic. Loneliness is not in search of ordinary human warmth, it is neutral. However, people often confuse them, even pretending to be a lonely bored ... ... "


"My nature is not communication. On most occasions, I do not find each other boring is the fear I bored with each other. But I was willing to put up with each other's boredom, rather hard to seem interesting, that were too tired. I am most comfortable alone, because I don't feel bored, even boring, also bear and does not involve other people, or feel uneasy. ”


男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...


He told the girls what men worth marrying:


Men should not be timid, the ability to have a fighting spirit and self-reliance, not cowardice, has a strong will and courage of courage, not trivial, have a open mind and vision. Aggressive, perseverance, generosity, it is like a man. Both men and women will agree with this conclusion. Woman willing to marry such a man, because men can assume responsibility for reliable, let her heart at ease.


These are closely related to each one of us's philosophy from the Zhou Guoping teacher's personal public number.

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

In addition, the Professor of the public, have pushed many great articles, focusing on teacher Zhou, public, background response keywords, to obtain high quality articles.


Occasionally if your lover is cheating, what I'm suggesting is that ... ...


(Attention to Zhou Guoping teachers, public, background response "infidelity" to read article)


Who you met, your fate depends on


(Attention to Zhou Guoping teachers, public, background response "meet" to read article)


The two people are in love, is a reliable ... ...


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response "in love" to read article)


Why are you anxious and twist the bar? 》


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public responses "twisted bar" to read article)


The best formula of relations between men and women


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public responses "formula for men and women," read the article)


The one sign of maturity is what? 》


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response, "a sign of maturity," read the article)


The anxiety caused by you,


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response "anxiety" to read article)


What is true feeling? 》


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response "real love" to read article)


What else did he say?

Zhou Guoping, public concern, I believe everyone will have harvest!

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

[:de]

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

作为一个通晓人性的智者,蒙田曾经设想,男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是一种肉体得以分享的精神友谊。倘若有人问:这种肉体得以分享的精神友谊究竟是什么东西——是爱情,准爱情,抑或仍是友谊?我来替蒙田回答吧:智者不在乎定义。

——周国平



在阅读时代里,

一个优质的公众号,往往就像朋友一样,

在孤独时给我们充实的慰藉,在喧闹时,又能让我们安静的看清前行的方向。


今天为大家推荐一位著名作家的公众号:

周国平(ID:zhouguoping6666)


男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...


中国当代著名学者、作家、哲学家

(他很少写别人的经历,但我们每个人都能从他的文字里找到自己。)

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

当爱情途经我们的生命里的时候,

周国平老师告诉我们:


“不要以成败论人生,也不要以成败论爱情。

现实中的爱情多半是失败的,不是败于难成眷属的无奈,就是败于终成眷属的厌倦。然而,无奈留下了永久的怀恋,厌倦激起了常新的追求,这又未尝不是爱情本身的成功。

说到底,爱情是超越于成败的。爱情是人生最美丽的梦,你能说你做了一个成功的梦或失败的梦吗?”

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...


他告诉我们什么是真正的孤独:


“一颗平庸的灵魂,并无值得别人理解的内涵,因而也不会感受到真正的孤独。孤独是一颗值得理解的心灵寻求理解而不可得,它是悲剧性的。无聊是一颗空虚的心灵寻求消遣而不可得,它是喜剧性的。寂寞是寻求普通的人间温暖而不可得,它是中性的。然而,人们往往将它们混淆,甚至以无聊冒充孤独……”


“我天性不宜交际。在多数场合,我不是觉得对方乏味,就是害怕对方觉得我乏味。可是我既不愿忍受对方的乏味,也不愿费劲使自己显得有趣,那都太累了。我独处时最轻松,因为我不觉得自己乏味,即使乏味,也自己承受,不累及他人,无需感到不安。”


男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...


他告诉姑娘们什么样的男人值得嫁:


男人应该不窝囊,有奋斗的精神和自立的能力,不怯懦,有坚强的意志和临危不惧的勇气,不琐碎,有开阔的胸怀和眼光。进取,坚毅,大度,这才像一个男人。无论男人女人都会同意这个结论。女人愿意嫁这样的男人,因为这样的男人能够承担责任,靠得住,让她心里踏实。


这些与我们每个人息息相关的哲理思想都出自于周国平老师的个人公众号。

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

此外,周老师的公众号还推送过很多很棒的文章,关注周老师公众号,后台回复关键词,可获取优质文章。


《如果你的爱人偶然出轨了,我的建议是......》


(关注周国平老师公众号,后台回复“出轨”阅读文章)


《你遇见了谁,决定着你的命运》


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男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

As a wise man of a knowledge of human nature, Montaigne had envisioned, the happy way marriage between men and women, but a body to share the spirit of friendship. If someone asked: what exactly is this spirit to share the spirit of friendship things--love, love, or friendship? I am here to answer Montaigne: the wise men don't care about definitions.

--Zhou Guoping



Reading time,

A high quality public, often as a friend,

Give us substantial comfort in solitude, when in a noisy and leave us in peace to see along the way.


Today recommend a famous writer, public:

Zhou Guoping (ID:zhouguoping6666)

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

Contemporary famous Chinese scholar, writer, philosopher

(He seldom writes other people's experiences, but each of us can find it in his writings. )

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

When love through time in our lives,

Zhou Guoping teacher told us:


"Not by his success or failure in life, nor by his success or failure in love.

Real love is mostly failed, not lost to hard to make it but was defeated by finally satisfied weariness. However, the resignation left a lasting nostalgia, boredom sparked a new pursuit, which in turn perhaps the success of love itself.

After all, love is beyond success or failure. Love is the most beautiful dream in life, you can say you had a successful dream dreams or failure? "

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

He told us what was real lonely:


"The soul of a mediocre, and not worthy of understanding content, and therefore will not feel lonely. Loneliness is an understandable mind seeks to understand and available, it's tragic. Boredom is an empty heart to seek fun, which weren't available, it is comedic. Loneliness is not in search of ordinary human warmth, it is neutral. However, people often confuse them, even pretending to be a lonely bored ... ... "


"My nature is not communication. On most occasions, I do not find each other boring is the fear I bored with each other. But I was willing to put up with each other's boredom, rather hard to seem interesting, that were too tired. I am most comfortable alone, because I don't feel bored, even boring, also bear and does not involve other people, or feel uneasy. ”


男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...


He told the girls what men worth marrying:


Men should not be timid, the ability to have a fighting spirit and self-reliance, not cowardice, has a strong will and courage of courage, not trivial, have a open mind and vision. Aggressive, perseverance, generosity, it is like a man. Both men and women will agree with this conclusion. Woman willing to marry such a man, because men can assume responsibility for reliable, let her heart at ease.


These are closely related to each one of us's philosophy from the Zhou Guoping teacher's personal public number.

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

In addition, the Professor of the public, have pushed many great articles, focusing on teacher Zhou, public, background response keywords, to obtain high quality articles.


Occasionally if your lover is cheating, what I'm suggesting is that ... ...


(Attention to Zhou Guoping teachers, public, background response "infidelity" to read article)


Who you met, your fate depends on


(Attention to Zhou Guoping teachers, public, background response "meet" to read article)


The two people are in love, is a reliable ... ...


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response "in love" to read article)


Why are you anxious and twist the bar? 》


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public responses "twisted bar" to read article)


The best formula of relations between men and women


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public responses "formula for men and women," read the article)


The one sign of maturity is what? 》


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response, "a sign of maturity," read the article)


The anxiety caused by you,


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response "anxiety" to read article)


What is true feeling? 》


(Zhou Guoping, the background of the public response "real love" to read article)


What else did he say?

Zhou Guoping, public concern, I believe everyone will have harvest!

男女之间最美满的结合方式不是婚姻,而是...... - Most content is not marriage between men and women, but ... ...

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