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大家好,今天这篇文章来自张小娴,她是香港知名作家,是全世界华人的爱情知己。 – Hello, today from this article however, she is a well-known writer, is a confidant of Chinese all over the world love.

你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as

大家好,今天这篇文章来自张小娴,她是香港知名作家,是全世界华人的爱情知己。


她的文字温柔而犀利,每一字句都打到心坎。她以小说描绘爱情的灼热与冷却,以散文倾诉恋人的微笑与泪水,迄今已出版四十多本小说和散文集,深受广大读者好评。


我很喜欢本文中的一句话:一个人的等待,等的不过是自己的死心,哪天死心了,哪天就自由了。


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你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as


那些没有应答的等待,总会随着时日变淡

痴心总有无以为继的一天

然后就梦醒了

有时候,是你把单思看得太神圣

忘了我们都是血肉之躯

你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as 

分手已经7年,他一直等她回去。虽然早就不爱他,也没打算回去,可每次提起这个痴心一片的前男友,她总会略微得意地说:


“哎,这么多年了,他还在等我,太傻了。”


这句话她说了整整9年,却没能再说下去,到了第9年,他爱上了别人,他不等了。

 

当他等的时候,她总是叫他别等,叫他去爱别人;当他真的去爱别人,她却恨死他了。


到头来,是谁太傻?她竟以为他会永远等她。


你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as


你都不爱他了,他为什么要等?


他曾是如此渴望你,可是,多少个夜晚,当他孤单,当他寂寞,当他痛苦的时候,他心里也是希望可以爱上别人的。


谁会永远等一个人?

不过是还爱罢了,不过是遇不到另一个人罢了。

 

说穿了,有多少人是一边等一边找?


他找到的时候,你还不过来,他就不等了;你过来,他也不一定还爱你。


一个人的等待,等的不过是自己的死心,哪天死心了,哪天就自由了。

 

是谁在等?等什么呢?


等他爱你,等他终于知道你的好,等他回心转意,等他改过,等他变好……所有这些等待,也会有失去耐性的一天。


等待是一个人的苦苦勾留,无非是等自己鼓起勇气转身离开。

 

你知道他会来,你才会等,哪个傻瓜会等一个不会回来的人?除非,除他以外,你再也没有别的选择。

 

谁会等一列不会到站的列车?等的时候,是以为列车会来的,等着等着才知道车不会来。你默默再坐一会,心里想着会不会有奇迹?然后你知道再无可能。起风了,冷飕飕的,你跟自己说:“还是回去吧。”

 

多少等待,曾经饱含希望?

多少离去,是渐渐没那么爱了?


可以等,也可以不等,都无所谓了,不执着了。然后你告诉自己:以后再也不要等一个人了,没意思。


你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as


当你孤伶伶从车站走出来,抬头看到那片没有星星的夜空,你突然就明白:


有些等待是甜的,有些等待是苦的,有些等待患得患失,有些等待默然无语,有些等待永无尽期,有些等待是煎熬和折磨。


人生有各样的等待,却不见得所有的等待也有归期。我爱你都爱到这么不自爱了,你若珍惜,我何须再等?你若不珍惜,我又何必再等?

 

曾经坚持的等待,不过是渴望他的稀罕。我用青春等你,你蓦然回首的一刻,我在,那多好啊!感动吧?我都被我自己感动到泪流满面了,可偏偏有那么一个人,他就是不感动、不稀罕,那你还等什么呢?


一意孤行的等待,说得好听是痴情,说得难听是死皮赖脸。趁青春正好,不如归去。

 

那些没有应答的等待,总会随着时日变淡,痴心总有无以为继的一天,然后就梦醒了。有时候,是你把单思看得太神圣,忘了我们都是血肉之躯。

 

当你等一个人的时候,你是希望有一天他会和你在一起的,而这一天不会很远。毫无希望的等待,只是一个人的徘徊不去。


你执意要等,可他在意吗?他珍惜吗?他知道吗?他有让你等吗?他都没要你等,是你自作多情罢了。

 

日子漫长,青春虚度,大好一个人,都等成一条狗了,再等下去难道会变成神犬吗?


走吧,有些等待,只是一厢情愿。


灯火已阑珊,归途上,只有你自己,人家都没留你吃饭,再不回去,就晚了。


你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as


你也曾经历过这样毫无希望的等待吗?

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你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as 

*作者:张小娴,香港知名作家,全球华人的爱情知己。文字温柔而犀利,每一字句都打到心坎。

来源公众号:遇见张小娴(Miss_AmyZ) 。


你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as


你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as

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你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as


Those waiting with no answer, there will always be time fades

Infatuation is always there that following day

Then I wake up

Sometimes, your single too sacred

Forget we are all flesh and

你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as  

Break up for 7 years, he has been waiting for her to go back. Have not loved him, did not intend to go back, but every time I lift this infatuation was ex-boyfriend, she always slightly pleased to have said:


"Now, all these years, he is still waiting for me, silly. ”


This word she said for 9 years, but could not go on, in the 9th year, he fell in love with someone else, he not wait.

 

While he was waiting when she told him to wait, that he loved when he really loved, she hates him.


After all, who is too stupid? She thought he was going to wait for her forever.


你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as


You don't love him, why should he wait?


He was so eager to you, however, how many nights when he was alone when he was lonely, when his pain when his heart is also hoping to fall in love with someone else.


Who will ever waiting for a person?

But still love it, but not to another.

 

To put it bluntly, how many people look for?


When he is found, you do not come, he will not wait; you come here, it doesn't mean he's still in love with you.


One of waiting, but his heart, forget one day, one day will be free.

 

Who is in? What are you waiting?


He loves you, he finally knows you well, wait for him to turn around, waiting for him to turn over, wait for him to get better ... ... All this waiting, also have lost patience day.


Waiting is a person spent, but they pluck up the courage to walk away.

 

You know he's going to, you will wait, what kind of fool would wait for a people who will not come back? Unless, that is, except him, you no longer have a choice.

 

Who is waiting for a column does not train to arrive? While you wait, is that the train will come, wait waiting didn't know the car will not come. You sit in silence for a moment, wondering will there be a miracle? Then you know that is no longer possible. Windy, chilly, you say to yourself: "better get back. ”

 

How much waiting, once full of hope?

How many left, are getting less love?


Or, whatever, is not rigid. Then you tell yourself: neither one later, dull.


你不要一直等,等成一条狗 - You don't have to wait, a dog such as


When the tavern you walked out of the station and looked up to see that is no stars in the night sky, you will understand:


Some waiting is sweet, some waiting is hard, wait for the trap, some wait for silence, some waiting for the never-ending, some waiting is agony and torture.


Life with all manner of waiting, but not necessarily all the waiting for return. I love to love you so I do not love, if you treasure, why should I wait? If you do not value, why should I wait?

 

Had insisted on waiting, but his rare. My youth waiting for you, the moment you look back, I was, how good! You here? I was moved to tears by myself, but there is a person, he is not moving, not rare, what are you waiting for?


Minded to wait, put it nicely is infatuated, say it cruelly is wanted. Take advantage of youth, maybe.

 

Those waiting with no answer, there will always be time fades, infatuation is always there that following day, then wake up. Sometimes, your single too sacred, forget we are all flesh.

 

When a person like you, when you hope that one day he will be with you, and this day will not be far away. Hopeless wait, just a people lingered.


You have to wait, but he care? Did he value? Did he know that? He makes you wait? He doesn't want you to wait, is your affection.

 

Days are long, wasted youth, good one, such as a dog, do waiting any longer would be a dog?


Come on, wait, just wishful thinking.


Lights are Dim, on the way home, only you, they did not stay to eat, don't go back, too late.


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