21st evening, in a ceremony on a video website, actor son of Yi Sha and Hu may Angie won the "knocking MoE baby of the year" award.
As Guo of the presenters to play a joke on Angie.
Was this joke, really embarrassing.
Angie got out on, Guo degang as the title line: "How do I look at Angie like my child and Hu may. ”
Yi Sha was one, had to use a joke to defuse: "shame to Miss Guo, no, said the little fish like Yue Yunpeng, Angie again like you, I have no way to live. ”
Guo replied: "no, it means your family hospitality. ”
Presentation link, Guo degang wrongly Sha Yi was awarded the prize, this ethical joke again: "I thought it was the fathers given. "Yi Sha said:" this is called dad. ”
Zhihou, he jiong have asked Angie heard a Comedy Club, Guo degang, again on behalf of Angie replied: "this is my father's unit. ”
On a 5-year-olds repeatedly said so, really far.
Someone said: child, doesn't know any better, it's a joke. But Angie really don't understand?
Just came to power, he is particularly pleased, also turned up on the stage down.
But it's a "joke", he had not wanted to talk.
Even the most innocent children without a vote or by virtue of his natural, distinguish between what is good and what is bad.
What's more, Angie is so delicate.
Yi Sha's micro-blog has an article on his son's status:
Mother Hu may know what he's thinking about, and once took a night train to look at him, mouth is an understatement: "it's okay, MOM you will want you, it's so good to see you, you don't mind if I come from. "She was afraid of Anji thought too much.
Such a sensitive child, and trample their own MOM and Dad's image in the eyes of others, why not sad?
Many people blamed Guo degang, but it's not just one person's problem.
He represents our early childhood, who owes the mouth as a joke, when fun rude, forthright and outspoken when don't respect children's "bad".
Most of us, have grown up in this environment:
Always some Uncle gave you a few bucks: dad, this money is for you.
There is always one year Wu's relatives "tease" you: you do not own. Your mother gave birth to little brother, don't you. If your parents are divorced, who you choose?
There is always an adult deliberately take your toys, take you for a long time before the mishap when a joke or laugh at even the slightest defects in your body, then you cry laughing.
Why has no one thought that a child, hear what so hard, how sad?
Using their unconditional trust, had laughed about the things that matter in their eyes, enjoy the emotions of children playing in the hands of pleasure, it's not a joke, it's teasing.
"I got him to play it! ”
A "funny" Word, hides too much "bad" cruel things adults do to us.
Because it is a "tease" you cry, is too fragile; you counter, is bad-tempered, not sensible you ignore him, he even further.
"Yo Yo, a joke, did this child? ”
You see, allowing him to bad, you are not angry. However, only the people who think it's funny joke, that's a joke.
Even more frightening, is one side of the parents think it's OK.
Or due to the feelings, not turn but hard squeeze smiled, turned and rebuked the crying you don't know any better.
Gratuitous joke, has been a great injustice, now, even the most trusted person in the opposition blame no one thought, to respect for the child.
In this world, there are many kinds of violence, language and violence on people's day.
Lonely child childhood, grew up mostly without security type:
Unable to fully trust in others;
Always very independent, not entirely dependent on one person;
Not used and being too close;
Your teeth do not even ask for help, fear of being rejected;
In front of loved ones, the first reaction is not a bold pursuit, but inferior;
Rarely express your mind, always disguised as a good natured person;
If you are also like this, love yourself. It's not your fault, you are just at a very young age, they did not get enough respect.
Many adult problems are actually childhood problems. Adult sentence "accidentally" trick trick, may leave children lingering in the shadows, the destruction of entire childhood.
Afraid of fear, random jokes adults do not understand.
They don't know, caustic and humor is one thing; outspoken and Frank are two different things without corrections and sex are two different things; do not weigh the points and Frank are two different things.
They did not understand it, as an adult, using sophisticated words and deeds as the child health guide and regulate, rather than older, privileged, wanton tease, consuming a child most clean in good faith.
Later encountered bad joke fun children for self-righteous adults, please shut them up! This is not humorous, this hurt, this is rude.